A tough question to ask someone. One that stops oneself and begs for immediate reflection. How do you answer the question?

To easier answer the question, maybe more questions need to be asked. How are your relationships with your family? How are your relationships with your co-workers? Now these are some questions to start the thought process. Ask the people closest to you if you are being the best you.

I have my share of motivational recordings and books. Of the two, I prefer reading as it lets the mind visualize better. And to further the experience and retention, it is suggested that you read aloud. There are several books that have helped me with my relationships.

Once recognized, if there is some improvement that needs to be made, do so, recognize it. But do not dwell on it, for what you dwell on, you manifest more of the same. The idea is to find the areas of your life that you are excelling at and build upon that positive.

The problem usually lies in that you are not living a balanced life. You have either devoted too much time to your work or hobby thus leaving the other parts of your life needing attention. There are reasons they put those little weights on the tires, to keep them balanced.

Most people do not spend anytime at all on themselves. They do not take care of their bodies or their minds. No simple reflection.

You are on life's journey. Stop and take a reading on the map, "Are you being the best you?". Change the heading if you need to and carry on.